Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Good Things...

First off, thanks to everyone for your "fuck the rules" mantra. I have to say that it definitely was the correct choice.

As promised, I went pumpkin carving with this girl I'm head over heels for. It was a REALLY good time. We went to grab some food before shopping for pumpkins at the local pumpkin patch. It was a little weird for me because I wasn't sure if this was a date or if it was just two friends hanging out, so I kept it cool and just treated it as the latter. Anyhow, we had a blast at my place, carving those bastards up and having some drinks.

After the carving festivities were done, we were hanging out in my room and things were extremely comfortable. Actually, the whole night was really comfortable. I decided that she wouldn't still be at my place at 1am if she wasn't interested, so I went in for a kiss and 3 1/2 hours later, we fell asleep. Nothing major happened, just "second base" stuff. I want to take things nice and easy because I genuinely feel something special with this one. That "intangible" that has been missing from all of the other relationships seems to be here with this great girl. I told her about how I felt the exact moment of seriously liking her when we were out last weekend at the pub/restaurant and she loved that. I can't say enough about how great this girl is. I did show off a little by displaying my great memory of little things we had talked about the last time we had hung out. She was very impressed. Hehe. We are getting together on Friday for another great time.

So, what do I do with this blog? Well, I can do a couple of things, so please let me know what you think.

I can make it an "experience" type of blog that chronicles the things that are going on in this relationship (if it continues). Or I can start writing the stories of my bachelor friends and make this more of a tapestry of "ass tapper" adventures. Believe me, there are a bunch that a few of my buddies would love to tell on here. I, of course, would still be the writer.

How do these ideas sound? Maybe a combination of the two? Or something else? Speak up!

3 comments:

  1. Second base?!? What are you, in junior high? Did you take out her retainer first?

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  2. Ignore the anonymous ass who doesn't have the balls to have a name. Online.

    And I can only really speak from a girl's perspective. I'm not sure I'd want to end up finding out that my relationship was spattered in stories for the world to read for quite some time before I was privy to the knowledge. Because she will find out. And then...she'll want to read it. Doesn't matter how hard you hide the link, she'll find it. She'll analyze everything you've written. Even it was months. Everything you say about her. Every good moment, every frustrating moment. What if you have a fight? You'll post it, people like me, bored and too much time will give advice, and she'll say things like, "You took that online Alecia girl's advice? Really?!" ... Perhaps I'm being dramatic, but I'm just saying...it could happen.

    Plus, you've gone all saptastic. Other stories couldn't hurt. OR...random topics, where people email you with an idea, or a suggestion, you possibly give advice of your own? These are my two cents. And it's late.

    Congrats with the girl. I'd suggest taking out the pumpkin...she's a girl, no chick wants to be compared to something so...round. ;)

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  3. Yo Alecia! Why the hate? Surely you can understand there are some perfectly good reasons why someone might want to take part in a blog called "Ass Tapper" without divulging his true identity? Anyway, if I'm an anonymous ass with no balls, what does that make our good friend Kel? I promise you that's not his real name...just sayin.

    Ball-less ass

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