Anytime, Anywhere

A lot of my friends ask how I meet the girls I date. Well, there is no one answer to that question. It can happen anytime, anywhere. Here are a few examples:

1) Walking on the street one day, a girl asked me if I knew where a certain shop was. I didn't know, so I looked it up on my phone while asking her questions about herself. I offered to walk her to the shop, she agreed. After more conversation, I got her number and that was that. By the way, that was a first for me and I was proud of myself!!

2) I was playing a game in a bar with my friend. We noticed some cute girls that were by themselves and asked if they wanted to join. They came over and after a while of fun conversation, I got the number of the one I was vibing more with. This tactic works well. About 100% of girls who've played a game with me in a bar have given me their number.

3) A restaurant hostess is a pretty tough shell to crack. In fact, any girl "on the job" is tough to tell if they like you or are working for tips. I took my chances on this one. I asked her about one of her accessories when I was about to be seated. This ice-breaker opened the door for some playful flirting every time she would walk by my table. So, on my way out of the restaurant, I spoke to her a little more and got her number. I have tried doing this with waitresses, but they pull the "Can I have your number instead?" trick....sometimes the "I have a boyfriend" one is popular too.

So, those are three examples of how I have done it. There are other possibilities too, like coffee shops, book stores, etc. The trick is to be yourself and don't have an agenda. Just talk, see if she is interested or not within the 30-60 second mark, and then ask for her number. You miss every shot you don't take.