I have noticed, in my nightly "hunts", that there are a large amount of girls who go out with their girlfriends and get all glammed up, but want nothing to do with anyone who tries to start a decent conversation with them!!
I am very confused by this. As you know, I live in a new area now and what I have been able to discern from the few weeks that I have lived is this:
There are more BITCHES here than where I used to live!!!!!
Now, I mean that in the most non-demeaning way I can. The fact is that most of the girls I have encountered the last few weeks have been very short, venomous (yes, venomous!!!) and standoffish. Why would a girl get all done up and go out to a place where PEOPLE MEET if she wants nothing to do with anyone who will inevitably try to talk to her. I understand the whole "I'm hanging with my friends....girls night out" stuff, BUT COME ON!!!
I have run into this where I used to live, but it seemed to happen less.
My only conclusion on the matter is that I KNEW the spots that were more chill in my previous locale. I just need to find places like that here. I'm just tapping the wrong resources right now. No matter, tomorrow's a new day.
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I'm thinking, the closer you get to a big city, the more bitchy girls get.
ReplyDeleteMost of the time, bitches get all dolled
ReplyDeleteup to impress the other bitches in the room. Sort of a keeping up with
Joneses thing. Chach. Guys don't give a fuck what they're wearing, and
chicks know that. And as far as approaching chicks in groups -- that's
very tough to do. You have to separate one from the pack somehow. When
they're in a group, they're not individuals anymore, they're a big
fucking hairy ball of chach. If you can't separate the one you want
from the pack, try this move: when you see a bunch of chicks together,
pick the one that's obviously the least hot in the group. If she's a
total fatty who stands zero chance of getting any action, then so much
the better. Talk to her first, and almost go so far as to ignore the
other bitches. One of a couple of things is likely to happen: 1) They
know the chick your talking to is uglier/fatter/whatever than them and
get jealous of the attention, so start getting in on the action, and
boom, you're in. 2) They see you talking to the ugly one, and assume
you must be a good/safe/non-weirdo dude, because you're not being a
total dog hitting on the hotties, and boom, you're in.
Where does that leave the least hot girl? I mean, as a non-hottie I have to say: Ouch. We do have feelings, just saying.
ReplyDeleteYou're very quick to blame the women. They may have been conditioned to act highly suspicious. It's bad enough that guys nowadays think that buying you a (unsolicited!) drink requires some sort of commitment on our part, but there are even some guys who think you owe them something just because you reciprocated their attempts at conversation. Seriously, it's happened to me several times. A guy starts talking to me, I'm not particularly interested, but I don't want to be rude, and he's being friendly, so I'm polite and talk with him. Then when he asks for my number, I say no, and he gets indignant. I have guys insist that I *had* to give them something. ???
ReplyDeleteSo, if this new place your at is full of guys who expect something from any women who shows them the slightest amount of human decency, well, you may just have to modify your game plan.
Well, that is just it. THe women I am referring to are the ones that DON'T give any bit of human decency. They are not even polite. Just to clear things up, I don't expect anything when I am talking to a girl. I can tell if she is just talking to pass the time or talking because she may be interested. I can tell the difference. And no, I don't ask for a number every time I have a conversation with a woman.
ReplyDeleteBut good points nonetheless, Vanessa. I agree that there may be a high douchebag ratio in this town. Oh well, I will still be out there just being myself.