I was out last night with my friend and we were hanging out in a pretty good beer/wine bar. After we were there for a while, I noticed that there was a group of three girls standing right by us. Now these girls seemed fun and they were attractive, but here is where their attitudes made them NOT fun and NOT attractive.
A fairly good-looking guy was sitting by them and they were totally flirting with him. The usual stuff girls do to flirt is touching, giggling, leaning in close....whatever. But here is the kicker: the guy was there with a date who seemed weirded out by these girls flirting with her man!
So, here is what I concluded from the situation. These girls, although nothing special, felt the need to flirt with this girl's man just to show they can take attention away from her and put it on themselves. Attention is the life-force for females. They need it to survive. They will do anything to get it and will always want more. This trio of girls actually made me think less of them for what they were doing. It was really disgusting. The guy was some jock-looking guy who probably didn't have much behind the eyeballs, so he was clueless while his girl was getting pissed.
One little nugget that involved me was when she got up to use the restroom, I asked her why those girls are all over her dude. She pressed up against me, grabbed my ass and said, "That just means I can rub up on who I want." Then she gave me a high-five and off she went. Hmmm, strange, strange stuff. At least I had a hot girl "molest" me.
As a side note, there was another little thing that occurred that is worth mentioning here.
One of the three girls seemed less high-maintenance and fairly approachable, so I asked her a random question and she seemed open to talk to us. However, while my friend and I were talking to her, I began to notice that she kept scooting back half a step every so often. I kept having to lean forward to hear what she was saying before I realized what she was doing. The funny thing was that we weren't being creeps or anything like that, we were just talking. I don't know if she had some weird incidents with guys in the past, but she should have felt relieved that two good-looking, smart and non-threatening dudes were just shooting the shit with her. Oh well. It made me wonder if it was because we don't have the jock-look like the dude they were hitting on did.
No matter, onward.
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Ah yes. Sex and entitlement. Kel, I think there could be a whole book written on the matter. I'm sure that it applies for men and women alike. I know that I have done things with other women because I felt like the girl I was seeing at the time "deserved it." As a former man-whore I was even pretty good at seeking out the "revenge hump," where I was the welcome recipient of sex because some poor guy wasn't making his girl happy. But now that I'm on the straight and narrow I have to ponder what Karma has in store for me. Will I unknowingly make the girl I fall for next unhappy and will she be up to some hanky-panky while I'm not looking? Will grabbing ass be all that she does? Women, what's the best you have done because you felt entitled? TWINGMAN76
ReplyDeleteI have to say, and CAN say, confidently that I've never done this. Mostly because I'm not actually confident enough, or rude enough, nor do I care enough to take some other girl's guy. To me that's like saying, "I can't get my own, I must take your table scraps." Eww.
ReplyDeleteAnd in truth, sadly, I'm probably more like your glam-doll bitches you wrote about. Not because I want to be, but it's like this instinctive, defensive recoil I have. I do get all cute when I go out. Or I try to. I want to feel good about myself and it's fun to put in a little more time and effort on my looks. But truthfully, although I don't hate when a guy approaches me (unless he's totally skeevy), I'm not good at it. I have no idea what to say, or do, or how to be. I'm completely un-relaxed. So my nerves turn into this shell that hardens up and I probably come off like the biggest whore-bag bitch you've ever met. It could also be, if they're like me, they don't get approached that often, or...ever. So if it does happen...You're trying really hard to figure out why. lol. Sad, yet true.