Unfortunately, getting the number really isn't a big deal. Yeah, we think "Great! I got her number! Let's see where this goes." In reality, many of these turn into "fall-offs". Since beginning this journey, a lot of girls have given me their numbers. And yes, at first I was thinking that it was pretty awesome. However, I soon discovered that some of them didn't even turn into a first date! We would have a couple conversations on the phone and we'd set up a date, only to have them cancel the day of.
Now this doesn't always happen. We may have a date or two, with some heavy making out thrown in, and then it just evaporates. Usually with them not returning a call or text. The funny thing is that when one falls off, another one pops in. Kind of an "Even Steven" kind of thing. I can't explain it, but I have seemed to remain pretty consistent with having four women to date each week. This is just one of those strange occurrences. AND I'M NOT COMPLAINING!!!
Why is it that these girls just stop calling back?! At least "the Mad Scientist" was cool enough to be honest and tell me over the phone that she doesn't want to hang out anymore. Not calling back is fine and I get the message, but it is immature at the same time. And no, I don't keep calling and leaving messages. If they don't respond to a message, I move on. Simple and clean-cut.
Tap ya later!
(Not sure I'm digging this sign off. I liked some of the suggestions, but a three-word phrase would be best)
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